Saturday, April 9, 2016

Mockingbird by Kathryn Erskine

To spread more awareness for autism here is another inspiring autism book everyone should read.
10 and Up
This story is about Caitlin and in Caitlin’s world everything is black or white. Things are good or bad. Anything in between is confusing. That’s the stuff Caitlin’s older brother, Devon, has always explained. But now Devon’s dead and her Dad is no help at all. She wants to get over it, but as an 11-year-old girl with Asperger’s, she doesn’t know how. When she reads the definition of closure, she realizes that is what she needs. She just has a little trouble explaining it to everyone else.

This book does a pretty good job explaining the mind of a child with autism. We tend to live in our own little world, where what makes sense to us doesn’t always make sense to others. And it’s very hard to take us out of that world we’ve grown accustomed to. We are also very honest. Until a certain age we’re a walking truth bomb. And even as adults we will tell you our honest opinion, whether you want us to or not.

Children with autism and most children say ‘I don’t know’ a lot and most of the time we really don’t know the answer. ‘I don’t know’ should be a reasonable answer. I know I say it a lot and a majority of the time I really don’t know the answer.

And above all do no yell or raise your voice at a kid with autism. We won’t work with you if you do. Talk to us slowly and clearly but not like the way you would talk to a 3-year-old. We’re not stupid we just have a hard time understanding you.

If you’re with someone with autism and you’re looking at them and thinking ‘Why are they doing that?’ they’re probably looking at you and thinking the same thing.

This book involves another very serious subject: the death of a family member. Death is a tough thing to understand, especially if you think differently than everyone else.

I would suggest this book to pretty much anyone and everyone.

Saturday, April 2, 2016

How to Speak Dolphin by Ginny Rorby

To those of you who don’t know April 2 is World Autism Awareness Day.
Hooray! Woo!

So to celebrate, here is a book all about autism. Hope you enjoy.
For Kids and Adults Alike
This story is about 12-year-old Lily and her four-year-old half brother, Adam, who has severe autism. Adam’s autism has taken over her life and she has become more of a mother to her than a sister. Her stepfather, Don, can’t admit to himself that Adam has a problem and doesn’t start getting help for him until he’s up against the wall.
Adam loves dolphins, so when Don, an oncologist, hears about a young dolphin with cancer, he offers to help. When he brings Lilly and Adam along, Adam and the dolphin, Nori, instantly bond.
Even though Lily sees that Adam loves Nori, she also sees that the dolphin shouldn’t spend the rest of her life in captivity for Adam’s sake. Can Adam find help somewhere else? And can Lily help save Nori without betraying her family.

This story is one big emotional headache. There’s really too much sadness going on in this book. Don’t get me wrong; it’s a good book. And it gives a look into severe autism. But you should know that not all autistic people are like this.

Adam and all the other kids at the autism school in this book are on the severe side of the spectrum, the ones who are kind of hard to keep still and don’t talk. This story shows that if you suspect your child is autistic at a young age, get them diagnosed and get them help as soon as possible. If you wait too long they may never get the help they really need. I should know. I wasn’t diagnosed until I was fifteen and by then no one was willing to help. But todays’ schoolteachers are being trained to handle kids with autism. Something I didn’t have.

This book also taught me that dolphin-assisted therapy might not actually work. I won’t go in to all the sciencey junk behind it but in a nutshell; Swimming with dolphins has shown to relax a child with autism. But does being relaxed really help an autistic child in the long run? Swimming with dolphins is a fun experience for anyone but it’s not a proven therapy and you should use treatments that are proven to work.

As to quote the book “An autistic child will grow up to be an autistic adult.” So make sure you’re autistic child is given the right treatment or they won’t be able to handle adult life.