How to Speak Dolphin by Ginny Rorby

To those of you who don’t know April 2 is World Autism Awareness Day.

Hooray! Woo!

So to celebrate, here is a book all about autism. Hope you enjoy.

For Kids and Adults Alike

This story is about 12-year-old Lily and her four-year-old half brother, Adam, who has severe autism. Adam’s autism has taken over her life and she has become more of a mother to her than a sister. Her stepfather, Don, can’t admit to himself that Adam has a problem and doesn’t start getting help for him until he’s up against the wall.

Adam loves dolphins, so when Don, an oncologist, hears about a young dolphin with cancer, he offers to help. When he brings Lilly and Adam along, Adam and the dolphin, Nori, instantly bond.

Even though Lily sees that Adam loves Nori, she also sees that the dolphin shouldn’t spend the rest of her life in captivity for Adam’s sake. Can Adam find help somewhere else? And can Lily help save Nori without betraying her family.

This story is one big emotional headache. There’s really too much sadness going on in this book. Don’t get me wrong; it’s a good book. And it gives a look into severe autism. But you should know that not all autistic people are like this.

Adam and all the other kids at the autism school in this book are on the severe side of the spectrum, the ones who are kind of hard to keep still and don’t talk. This story shows that if you suspect your child is autistic at a young age, get them diagnosed and get them help as soon as possible. If you wait too long they may never get the help they really need. I should know. I wasn’t diagnosed until I was fifteen and by then no one was willing to help. But todays’ schoolteachers are being trained to handle kids with autism. Something I didn’t have.

This book also taught me that dolphin-assisted therapy might not actually work. I won’t go in to all the sciencey junk behind it but in a nutshell; Swimming with dolphins has shown to relax a child with autism. But does being relaxed really help an autistic child in the long run? Swimming with dolphins is a fun experience for anyone but it’s not a proven therapy and you should use treatments that are proven to work.

As to quote the book “An autistic child will grow up to be an autistic adult.” So make sure you’re autistic child is given the right treatment or they won’t be able to handle adult life.